Position Yourself
"Why do you want to move?", he asked me. --- One of the things humans try to do is control and predict every little aspect of their life. From relationships, to work, to weather, to time. We constantly live under the illusion that knowing what will happen and preparing for it is a possibility. And then life surprises you and you see you had little control in the first place. However, there are things I feel you can do to position yourself in such a way that increases the chances of your desired outcome. What that means is if you're hoping to learn to speak German, it makes very little sense to live in India. You could however position yourself such that you move to Germany, or find a job at a German institute, and your chances of speaking the language dramatically increase. Just in the same way, if you're hoping to find love - to find an Indian partner who has lived a life much like yours, you have a much higher chance if you position yourself in a country where ther...